tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post5662736697881284353..comments2023-11-03T13:16:48.376+00:00Comments on A Woman Of No Importance: Meanderings...A Woman Of No Importancehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02194976046531063422noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-23153928888083675432010-03-27T11:51:42.289+00:002010-03-27T11:51:42.289+00:00Such a heart-rending post. Nothing l can say will ...Such a heart-rending post. Nothing l can say will help the pain...so very sorry. It always hits one out of nowhere. My father died 72 years ago when I was four. I have no memory of him and that is probably what I miss. I can only imagine the pain I would feel had we had time to love one another.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-9818206691056531452010-03-26T19:22:01.128+00:002010-03-26T19:22:01.128+00:00This post broke my heart. It's so hard to los...This post broke my heart. It's so hard to lose someoone we love so much. I went through it with my parents too, and I know exactly what you are going through. It gets easier ... somewhat ... but they are always with us. I still talk to my Mom and she still answers. And my Dad is always with me. Always<br /><br />Take care of that cold!Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03382221688268676914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-20884249268380688652010-03-26T09:00:03.278+00:002010-03-26T09:00:03.278+00:00...oh gosh...and the call was.....
very powerful......oh gosh...and the call was.....<br /><br /><br />very powerful, honest and raw....am tearing up and its not even 9am...l shant cry l shant....<br /><br />luv you <br /><br />saz xSazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433666175721615185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-7973453203583478962010-03-25T14:07:04.033+00:002010-03-25T14:07:04.033+00:00Me again, I forgot to tell you how much I love you...Me again, I forgot to tell you how much I love your art.<br />debbyDebbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13688035819888769006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-82341953138665361372010-03-25T14:06:09.608+00:002010-03-25T14:06:09.608+00:00Oh I can so relate to this! I tend to keep everyth...Oh I can so relate to this! I tend to keep everything to myself but I am still not over the loss of my parents and doubt I ever will be. We were close, very close and I just can't get past the fact that they will not be there for me. I guess I am not much help for you but know you are not alone. We will always, always have the good times to remember.<br />Hugs,<br />debbyDebbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13688035819888769006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-56329752183590570762010-03-25T12:28:42.001+00:002010-03-25T12:28:42.001+00:00I too am an orphan - and my father in law died on ...I too am an orphan - and my father in law died on Friday so my husband is now one too. It is horrible, life changing. My Mum died 10 years ago when my daughter was 6 months old, and my husband reckons I've never been the same personality since as some of my spark has gone. It does, doesn't it? I empathise with you totally. I think you need to scatter the ashes though - it is hard but it needs to be done to bring a sense of finality to your new world. And the phone call....did you have the immediate feeling it was one of your parents phoning you? I did that for ages, and the sinking feeling is awful when you remember. xDineyhttp://oldermumsarefun.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-72282592731319692482010-03-25T11:40:50.217+00:002010-03-25T11:40:50.217+00:00Hi Fhina,
Sorry you've been laid low but hope...Hi Fhina,<br /><br />Sorry you've been laid low but hope that Spring will begin to brighten the days for you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00861397533660827678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-40611695083405550772010-03-25T09:51:16.961+00:002010-03-25T09:51:16.961+00:00oh I know that feeling being an orphan is a hard l...oh I know that feeling being an orphan is a hard lesson at any age, I try to be in gratitude that I had them and that we had worked thro' all the traumas that life presented. It is Ok and even sometimes good to grieve.<br /><br />Love and lightLindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06725848568732355171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-82593278038440110022010-03-25T09:10:48.563+00:002010-03-25T09:10:48.563+00:00Oh Fhina - I don't know how I knew but I did k...Oh Fhina - I don't know how I knew but I did know that there was a lot of sadness underneath your blog persona. Losing both parents is something that only other adult orphans can understand. Only this morning I was having a little cry about not having either a mum or a dad to ring up and chat with.<br /><br />The other evening on my own here I sat and looked at the two sofas and imagined, I shut my eyes and imagined my parents sitting on them. And of course I had another little cry.<br /><br />I don't think our longing for them will ever go away and it is impossible to say consoling words. It is like an ache always inside one.<br /><br />I think scattering your dad's ashes will be a Good Thing. You've also given us a cliff hanger ending and I am waiting to find out what the phone call was about. I've got a couple of theories and I'll have to wait and see if one of them is right.<br /><br />In the meantime it is lovely to have 'the real you' emerge, sad as it is. I hope your cold and allergies soon pass. My hay fever has just begun and it is very hard to breathe.<br /><br />I think you and I have a lot in common.<br /><br />xFrench Fancy...https://www.blogger.com/profile/04941577892849157015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-62488506375415257222010-03-25T09:04:04.544+00:002010-03-25T09:04:04.544+00:00Not sure how I got here, but glad I did.
Becoming ...Not sure how I got here, but glad I did.<br />Becoming an orphan is utterly vile, and I'm in my mid 50s. The pain when you go to pick up the phone is just vile.<br />Hope you will feel better soon.Fire Byrdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05477692359400671374noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-80308801761819108782010-03-25T07:00:23.157+00:002010-03-25T07:00:23.157+00:00I am so sorry for your losses! It is so hard to l...I am so sorry for your losses! It is so hard to lose our parents...you tend to feel like you lose your anchors. When the time is right, you will be able to scatter his ashes. <br />Hugging you<br />SueAnnSueannhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05299288406218968621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570655052849048780.post-71157157067132144882010-03-25T06:49:46.275+00:002010-03-25T06:49:46.275+00:00Get those ashes scattered ASAP, it should bring cl...Get those ashes scattered ASAP, it should bring closure - or can't you bear to let them go?<br /><br />By the way, it's prostate cancer, not prostrate. Every man lives in fear of it, although given it usually appears very late in life and is a slow cancer, the chances are that something else will carry you off before the prostate cancer. A few are unlucky though.<br /><br />Hay found a lump this week - she's now living in abject terror till she has a scan next week AND THERE'S NOTHING I CAN DO ABOUT IT.Chairman Billhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07908632282972692269noreply@blogger.com