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Wednesday, 21 January 2009

Ode to Hope

Before I get into my daily ramble through philosophy, Wikipedia and my own private Idaho, please go and take a look at the Fabulous Saz's, Fat, frumpy and fifty's piece for today - It is beautiful - She has grasped the
Poisoned Chalice Pictures, Images and Photos poisoned chalice that I proffered, which was to tell us 6 Random Things About Me!

Saz is the winner of today's award, for bravery and soul-baring...blog award2 Pictures, Images and Photos Thank you, precious!

And on to:

The nature of hope: Photobucket

You didn't really think I was going to cheapen the history of yesterday by referring to the Great White Hope himself, did you? Sorry about that...

Photobucket This is a piece of Banksy's art in the street, symbolising hope.

By now, I might expect a few of our American cousins to be feeling the effects of yesterday. After such excitement and anticipation, the new President of the United States was inaugurated into office. There were probably a few toasts, congratulatory embraces, some promises might even have been made between friends or loved ones as we stand on the brink of a new era...

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Photobucket So, I was flitting here and there on blogs over the pond, like the big fat social blogging butterfly I am, leaving messages in which I said words to the effect, 'Hang on to those feelings of hope...'

For so much is expected, nay hoped for from this one man... and his administration.

This got me pondering on the meaning of hope. What do we mean by hope? What is hope and what is our relation to it?

The Mythology of Hope

Once again, I bow to the Goddess Wiki: "Hope was personified in Greek mythology as Elpis.

Photobucket When Pandora opened Pandora's Box, she let out all the evils except one: Hope.

Apparently, the Greeks considered hope to be as dangerous as all the world's evils. But without hope to accompany all their troubles, humanity was filled with despair". (Solution = Windex! You'll only get this reference if you've seen the film...)

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Photobucket Photobucket "It was a great relief when Pandora revisited her box and let out hope as well. It may be worthy to note that in the story, hope is represented as weakly leaving the box but is in effect far more potent than any of the major evils".

What Is Hope?

I went to the dictionary, and found a familiar sight! Photobucket

The Dictionary definition describes hope as:

1. [noun] a specific instance of feeling hopeful; "It revived their hope of winning the trophy"

2. [noun] the general feeling that some desire will be fulfilled; "In spite of his troubles he never gave up hope"

3. [noun] grounds for feeling hopeful about the future; "There is little or no promise that he will recover"

4. [noun] someone (or something) on which expectations are centered; "He was their best hope for a victory"

5. [noun] United States comedian (born in England) who appeared in films with Bing Crosby (born in 1903)
Synonyms: Hope, Bob Hope, Leslie Townes Hope

Here we go again, I'd forgotten he was born in England!

6. [noun] one of the three Christian virtues

7. [verb] expect and wish; "I trust you will behave better from now on"; "I hope she understands that she cannot expect a raise"

8. [verb] be optimistic; be full of hope; have hopes; "I am still hoping that all will turn out well"

9. [verb] intend with some possibility of fulfilment; "I hope to have finished this work by tomorrow evening" How many times have I said that? - Seriously, I hope my boss never sees this blog!

Have you heard of Passive or Active Hope?

"In some faiths and religions of the world, hope plays a very important role.

Hope can be passive in the sense of a wish, or active as a plan or idea, often against popular belief, with persistent, personal action to execute the plan or prove the idea".

Please forgive me for once again getting 'Lost In Austen', and quoting from Jane Austen's last novel, Persuasion, based so much on hope and lost hope...

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"All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one; you need not covet it), is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone." Anne Elliot to Captain Harville... profoundly telling about the human condition, no?

Photobucket And the dashing Captain Wentworth writing to his lost love, Anne, "You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope". Photobucket

Hope in Poetry

Photobucket Emily Dickinson wrote about how: "'Hope' is the thing with feathers-- That perches in the soul--."

"Hope" is the thing with feathers—
That perches in the soul—
And sings the tune without the words—
And never stops—at all—

And sweetest—in the Gale—is heard—
And sore must be the storm—
That could abash the little Bird
That kept so many warm—

I've heard it in the chillest land—
And on the strangest Sea—
Yet, never, in Extremity,
It asked a crumb—of Me.

And here are some words (author unknown) that spoke to me yesterday, when I became filled with fear over a forthcoming operation:

Hope is not the closing of your eyes
to the difficulty, the risk,
or the failure.

It is trust that-
If I fail now -
I shall not fail forever;

and if I am hurt,
I shall be healed .

It is trust that
Life is good.

love is powerful,
and the future is full of promise.


My own personal favourite from Mr Keats:

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...And as, in sparkling majesty, a star
Gilds the bright summit of some gloomy cloud;
Brightening the half veil'd face of heaven afar:
So, when dark thoughts my boding spirit shroud,
Sweet Hope, celestial influence round me shed,
Waving thy silver pinions o'er my head!

from To Hope
John Keats


Hope in Philosophy and Psychology; Hope as in positive thinking to achieve changes in oneself...

"Martin Seligman in his book Learned Optimism (1990) strongly criticizes the role of churches in the promotion of the idea that the individual has little chance or hope of affecting his or her life.

He acknowledges that the social and cultural conditions, such as serfdom and the caste system weighed heavily against the freedom of individuals to change the social circumstances of their lives. Almost as if to avoid the criticism, in his book, What You Can Change and What You Can't, he is careful to outline the extent that people can hold out hope for personal action to change some of the things that affect their lives.

More recently, psychologist Anthony Scioli (2006) has developed an integrative theory of hope that consists of four elements: attachment, mastery, survival, and spirituality. This approach incorporates contributions from psychology, anthropology, philosophy and theology as well as classical and contemporary literature and the arts".

Have I got you thinking about what hope means to you yet? What is your relationship with hope?

Along those lines, here is what hope meant to some famous people you might recognise, and others you won't:

There is no hope of joy except in human relations.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery

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Fear less, hope more; eat less, chew more; whine less, breathe more; talk less, say more; hate less, love more; and all good things are yours.

Swedish proverb Photobucket I need to take that motto to my heart, I think! And finally ...

There is no reason to give up hope, because we have this marvelous intelligence. Because of this intelligence we also have a certain positive potential.

Dalai Lama Here he is: Photobucket


Not sure what happened there - That looks like one of the llamas I would like to adopt one day!Seriously, Photobucket


Photobucket And...Famous Quotes from Bob Hope:

I am going to give a few last words to Bob, yes I know he was the exact opposite of Mr Obama, but stick with me:

"I have seen what a laugh can do. It can transform almost unbearable tears into something bearable, even hopeful".

"When we recall the past, we usually find that it is the simplest things - not the great occasions - that in retrospect give off the greatest glow of happiness".

I think that last quotation is a pretty important one. I certainly believe that while we are sitting around, waiting for that big portion of happiness to come along; You know, that piece of the sky that has our name stamped on it - by which I mean, those numbers coming up on the big Lottery; Our children coming top in their class results... Our team winning that match outright when they're really the underdogs...

I mean that feeling that will just knock us off our feet... When sometimes it's the little, less obviously symbolic things that can count - And we just need to still our souls sometimes to observe them...


What does hope mean to you?

Go on, tell the little bird? little bird Pictures, Images and Photos



Can I, with sincere apologies, give the last words to Dubya?

Photobucket "The best way to defeat the totalitarian of hate is with an ideology of hope—an ideology of hate—excuse me—with an ideology of hope."—Fort Benning, Ga., Jan. 11, 2007

"Free societies are hopeful societies. And free societies will be allies against these hateful few who have no conscience, who kill at the whim of a hat."

Tuesday, 13 January 2009

Five Question MeMe

These questions were kindly put to me, do you call this a MeMe?, by the lovely and charming Saz who blogs as Fat, frumpy and fifty! I know she's lying, as she's none of those, although her hips apparently tell another tale!

Thank you for being so kind and gentle with me, Saz! Photobucket

1. Why do you blog?


Photobucket As the late, great, Wilde and often wonderful Oscar once said, "I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read on the train".

I wish I could feel like that about my blog; I wish I had that interesting a life!

In all honesty, I joined the Blogging World initially to be able to comment on others' interesting blogs, then I felt I might be able to give it a go myself. I thought it would give me something pleasant and creative to do while I am off work with a slipped disc, and it has!

For a while there I felt (and was told by GJ) that my brain was becoming addled, owing to not using it much, other than trawling through the Internet and watching (some, not all!) daytime TV! Photobucket


2. If you could live anywhere in the world for one month where would that be? Why?

Above all, I love Paris - My spiritual home:- The walks, even the convoluted Metro, the charming cafes, good food and drink and the sometimes bizarre pavement life and entertainment!

But it is a city, and therefore busy, so at this very moment I would choose a month in Bayahibe in the Caribbean. My back problem seriously began to trouble me in May last year, (although I have had issues with it for over twenty years, cue the violins, someone?), Photobucket

So, we went 'the whole hog'
Photobucket in the summer, knowing I couldn't do our usual, self-catering, trot around the European pavements, hopping on and off trains, kind of hols, and we booked, three weeks before flying, an 'affordable luxury', all inclusive package, (so it really, honestly, turned out no more expensive than a fortnight's self catering in the Mediterranean), in Bayahibe.
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It really does look like this, no camera filters necessary, and it was an idyllic break enjoyed by us all... The hotel was wonderful, the staff were excellent, friendly and beautiful, the beach was white, the sea was velvety, salty and clear, the light was fantastic, the wildlife and fish were interesting, (cheeky birds and little lizards, oh and don't forget the chickens, had the run of the 'open plan' hotel), and it was not crowded out with unruly tourists!

My main bugbear in life is yer archetypal Chavtastic Englishman abroad... Photobucket No offence meant!

So, a month there with GJ and Griz, so they could sail the little catamarans each day, and I could read, swim and just 'be' under a reeded palapa, would set me up jerst fine!

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3. If you were invited to a birthday party and asked to give the birthday girl/guy one book you love, which would it be? Why?

My favourite book is Jane Eyre, Jane Eyre  DVD Pictures, Images and Photos ~(Yes, I know that that's the BBC DVD, not the novel), by Charlotte Bronte Photobucket , and I try to read it once each year...

I also love Persuasion by Jane Austen persuasion Pictures, Images and Photos .

However, seeing how most men might react to such a gift in the following way:
OGRE Pictures, Images and Photos,

I would have to temper my choice to the perhaps more unisex, Flaubert's 'Madame Bovary.'
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Flaubert's novel concerns many of the kind of issues that still trouble us today: Thanks to Wiki: The novel focuses on a doctor's wife, Emma Bovary, who has adulterous affairs and lives beyond her means in order to escape the banalities and emptiness of provincial life. Though the basic plot is rather simple, even archetypal, the novel's true art lies in its details and hidden patterns. Flaubert was a notorious perfectionist about his writing and claimed to always be searching for le mot juste (the right word).

4. Tell me two interesting things about yourself that may surprise me.


1. My inner self is a 'Rock Chick', who went off on a world tour with the band, instead of to College, got tattoos (Ok, I have none, but there's still time...) Photobucket, and led a debauched but interesting and ultimately redemptive, life, viz Pamela des Barres, Photobucket who's now very respectable, a retailer of clothes and jew-jaws, and even a woman of the cloth, and she is one of my 'friends' on Myspace! Photobucket

In all actuality, I look as if I have just trawled up from North Shields Fish Quay, where I gut fish for a living! Photobucket Photobucket

2. I seem to be quite good at life coaching, Photobucket one of my friends told me recently - He was about to leave his girlfriend because of some imagined infidelity that he wasn't able to broach with her. In reality, he was afraid of being hurt, having been in that place before and it was easier to 'cut and run', although he hadn't perceived it as that... He asked me to lunch to help him talk things over...

Outcome:
They are getting married this year, and I wish them every, every happiness, I love him to bits for his bravery, but he trots around the office looking like love's young dream, so I have to keep reaching for the bucket! (Seriously, I did say that I wanted to be thanked in his speech, but he wasn't too keen!)

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5. Describe to me your DREAM meal , company & setting and reasons.


Anything vegetarian, any Mr Darcy, PhotobucketPhotobucket me, Eighteenth/Nineteenth Century setting - Do I need to state my reasons?


Nah, seriously, how impossibly cliched is that, so it would be Steak Frites for the GJ and Griz, Mushroom Omelette for me, (I is a girl of simple tastes, plus it's sometimes difficult to get vegetarian variety a Paris, but that doesn't put me off), French Biere ou un pichet de Vin Rouge, La Fregate restaurant, 30, Avenue Ledru Rollin, Paris - Failing that the Jules Verne Restaurant at the top of the Eiffel Tower - I've never been! Photobucket Reasons: Family is Family and I eat horribly untidily!

Seriously, Fat, Frumpy and Fifty, that was so much fun to do, and yet still took me ages - I loved doing it, thank you so much - If anyone else fancies a go at this - Five Questions of my choice lark - just leave a comment and I shall make it so!

Bless you!

Something I wrote earlier...

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